Shakti.. Woman..

Today, I am compelled to write this blog.
The power in the hands of a woman and the magic or destruction it can create has just amazed me. I had been noticing this immense power through various situations and examples in and around me, but never actually realized how powerful and dangerous it can get, until today. It can definitely make or break a life, a family or even a country. Mom was right. No wonder she kept guiding me towards being a  woman who could bring life in a life and not someone who would destroy it all. All her super-natural stories make sense today. All her teachings and lectures are flashing in front of me now.
This whole realization of power being in my hands as well and me being the source of Shakti is scaring me now. It means that I have a huge responsibility in front of me in near future. Would I be able to turn a family happier and prettier than ever? Would I pass this real-time test of life? Would I be a source of construction and not destruction? That future will only tell. But I know who I am and what I can do, so probably I don't need to be scared.
Well, more than being amazed, scared and compelled to think on these lines, I am worried about a very dear friend of mine, who is stuck in the hands of destruction. And, at this point I am clueless or how to help him. I don't know what to do. My talking and explaining doesn't seem to help. I calm him down for a brief period of time and he seems to be happy, but the next time I see him, the same sadness, dullness, extreme pain would be in and all around him. He has lost so much of weight. Having known him for quite some time now, I have seen the time when a girl had made his life so beautiful that he was spreading happiness all around. Today, I see the exact opposite, in fact even worse.
I am worried and scared.. I wish and pray he comes back to his own-self soon.